Peter Drucker, great management guru, has been saying recently that he is no longer interested in teaching leaders how to manage people, but rather how to manage themselves. And Dee Hock: If you look to lead, spend 40% of your time on yourself, your character, motivations, principles, conduct.
Like Bulchand used to say years ago, quoting scripture: If you cannot look after your own household, how can you look after the household of God?
And so also formation: 40% of time looking after oneself. Learning how to manage oneself. The rest will follow.